Practice communicating with each other even about about small issues that upset you.
For example:
When a relationship starts, the glass is completely clear - there's no resentments, nothing bad is said. But over time, things go unsaid.
Each time there is a small conflict that goes unresolved, it's like throwing mud at that pane of glass.
Ever little unresolved issue adds more mud to the previously clear glass, and after a point it becomes impossible to see the other person without thinking of their faults.
This when you lose the feeling of chemistry and the life force flowing between you.
What you actually need to do is clear those resentments and have the conversations that you haven't been having.
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